It is important to understand that in order to keep the fragile bonds that are relationships built up and healthy you need to keep them well maintained and allow them to flourish. Unfortunately, however, many relationships do break up and this is an incredibly nerve wracking, stressful and frustrating time. If you are one of these people that are involved in a relationship break up, you may actually want to get your ex back - but the question you need to ask yourself is, is this really the best step to take? Getting back with your ex can actually be achieved in a surprising way by getting back at them! - That’s right to get back with your ex you need to get back at them!